I see people looking for friends, partners, lovers all of the time. Sex is quite easy to find but not so much anything where you might also want to hang around together.

Don’t go looking for a partner or a friend as if on a quest. That is for medieval knights, of whom there are none left, or adventure films with too many beards. Meet someone. If you go looking the chances are so slim … but change your life around so it’s more the kind of life you can prosper in and you are very likely to meet someone. A person in some way sympathetic to your way of having a life.